I have thought about various issues in life but none of them has been
as complex or as mysterious like this...
Experiments ,research projects have been made over the past ,but none of them has yielded
a definite answer.
The conclusion was inevitable.
It's simply impossible to find out what's in a woman's heart.
So a girl asks me,why is that u never seem to understand me or rather any other girl......
and i always remain wtf.
Some of my female friends,when i ask them how to impress a woman ,they usually reply
1.Be gentle and kind to her
2.Be humourous
3.Compliment on her beauty(jus pure poetical lies...the'vaitaglela kavi types')
4.Buy her flowers,chocolates,surprise gifts....
5.and finally be yourself(as if we were acting like Shahrukh Khan)
Now I wonder why is that a woman expects so much from a guy(surprisingly they never mentioned the physical looks part..phew...)
The same thing when i asked some "successful" committed guys they reply like
1)if u really want her to love u , jus ignore her for some time completely.....
Shes gonna come after u like crazy,when she begins to miss you
THATS IT........
I couldnt believe it was so simple,yet so difficult.....
Coming back to understanding her heart, i am always desperate to know
what is really going in her mind when
1)She gives you the cold stare
2)Shes smiling (Does she really love me or is it that she jus curses me in her breath)
3)She gives the cute,loving look,with a gleam in her eyes,but still manages to snubb off the guy
4)She often says you're really sweet
Cant a women ever blurt off what she really thinks about a person.....
wont it be easy for everyone then......???
After deploring all these questions,the real truth hits us like a big tornado
All the wonderful girls(having both inner and external beauty) always fall a prey to the wrong person .They never seem to understand that they can be much happier to the one who loves her than whom she loves.....
eg.Katrina Kaif (falling a prey to a playboy like Salman Khan)
and some of my own friends too.......
Epilogue
To
My Love,
I aint qualify in one of those charming qualities,but i can surely keep u happy
will u accept me?
P.S - The above post is a general way of understanding a woman and doesn't mean anyone in particular.
Even The "I" in epilogue part refers to any guy and not Me as misunderstood by few persons...
and i certainly do not wish to express my love here in this blog..
9 comments:
it's rather simple ;)
if she doesn't say a no straight away..means she is interested
(considering that she knows you like her)but is just taking her time to see what kinda guy you are.
can I ask a question?
Why do guys suck at breaking up?
They don't mind ignoring and hurting but they just wont speak up
I still haven't been able to figure out :P
Welcome to blogosphere. Didnt thought you would start with this topic. But nevertheless, good start. Why do you want to understand women anyways. Better to be happy right nw. Neways u'll end up cursing them when you have a gf and worse when you marry.
@Snehal...
I doubt you observations. No straight no means interesed sounds wierd. Maybe it's true.
n hello guys suck at breakup....what's that for a statement...i mean are girls any good when they break up...elaborate.
welcome mr.dard-e-disco.kind of strange this topic comes from u,but still justified man .in future we expect more of gheela -stuff ...like to add on more thing..girls r not as dumb as we think they are,they r worse than that man ...
@snehal
if its that simple trust me u win a nobel .
girls are not THAT complicated also.. or even Dumb for that matter..
we like to have our own fun while deciding if we want to be with you.. for example: we'd want you to be more charming and romantic.. and SHOW that you want to be with ME rather than the inappropriately dressed girl standing next to me!
there are other things that you can do to woo a woman.. no. 1 is you have to be your charming self..
yes i know you're not supposed to be SRK, but just try to be honest about who you are rather than hide who you're not.
tanmay now i know why ur blog is called freak-o-maniac!here is a simple soln-if a man wants a place in a womans heart he 1st has 2 use his own.
Well i guess most of the things have been rather cleared by everyone a...just look at it this way..If it becomes as simple as that to understand a woman..where's the fun element in getting to know one;)
rite said dude...
good post sirjee... u remember ull were planning a seminar during nirmaan by ankit shah n me ... well i think that after all that uve written and all the comments uve received you can take the seminar urself...
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