We belong to a society , which has managed to build a closed surrounding, that resists change in any form. We desist moving into a new city or neighborhood , desist moving away from familiar groups ,desist moving into a new job or workplace,desist coming out of our personal space,afraid of breaking open the wall we have built all these years & fear of meeting someone for the first time and try including them in our group . We are cast into a particular form and shape and want to stay in that state eternally, meanwhile shaping others too in the process.
We expect people to behave in a particular fashion with us , and mould them according to our likes and dislikes.
We hate and despise new rules and legislation brought out in our society, schools, colleges, workplace and the country itself. We do not like someone to dictate terms on how do we do things.We want to do it in the same way we have been doing all along. We take a considerable time in adapting ourself to a particular habitat and its tough to force upon ourselves a new change , even if its meant for the positive side.How many times you have given this quizzical look , when your friends remark , "you have changed" , and retaliate saying "Definitely No". What better pride can you display than to say "I havent changed a bit. I'm just the same"
Dr.Meredith , in Grey's Anatomy says "
Change. We don't like it. We fear it, but we can't stop it from coming. We either adapt to change or we get left behind. It hurts to grow, anybody who tells you it doesn't is lying, but here's the truth sometimes the more things change the more they stay the same. And sometimes, oh, sometimes change is good. Sometimes change is everything.
This new "change" eventually raises a lot of questions to question the validity of change and do we really need to change?
How often do we find ourselves in a situation asking the inevitable "IF ? " question .
"If I did that , If I had said that, If i had known that information, If I had told him the truth , If I hadnt done that , If I had managed to reach in time " , the list is endless.Only to later realize , "If" is just nothing but a two letter word for futility.You cant do anything about.
If one has to change ,it has to be for the future and not for what he has been in the past.
As Sidney Sheldon quotes " Future is like clay. It has to be molded day by day. Past is like a bedrock stone.It is immutable"
Even travelers and globe trotters , who has seen most parts of the world , actually discover life and find solace only in their own homes, no matter where it is or how small it is .
They may need a break , yet find their own feet only within the confines of their little home.
The line from Wayne's world summarises everything : We Fear Change
Yet , the same "Change" interestingly has been responsible in deciding whos the most powerful man in the world.
Barack Obama ,the first black president of the United States has successfully shown,what "Change" can do - to win a presidency , by assuring people , that Change is good, and it is there in the offing !
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change is always constant, and that so easily could be connected by merely peeking into the class. People change, talking mentally here, depending on what they absorb being with friends, how a simple day demands. And of course its for good, on most ocasions. Good choice of topic:)
1.do we really resist change? i personally disagree on many counts mentioned in the first para .
2.change is inevitable,change is constant.so all u can do is adapt and change for the better and yes keep voting for CHANGE .
The "IF i did.." approach somewhere needs to change as you said.Why regret decisions you made, rather stick to it and tackle the difficulties on the way.
And yes being stubborn doesn't help, stubborn people seldom succeed. Ability to adapt to newer environment is absolutely essential
hey good to know you're a fan of grey's anatomy :P
yeah agree with you. we will always stick to our group , our locality and never get out of that comfort zone! but that's really not how it should be.
but obviously it depends on the situation. sometimes change is good. sometimes its bad.
but the point is whether you want to take a step ahead or not. to move on .. adapt to the change (when things are good) or to defy it, to fight against it.. when its wrong/bad.
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